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It's February!  So how could I not start this month's blog without mentioning Valentine's Day?  I discovered several explanations of how this celebration started, but some experts claim that it originates from St. Valentine, a Roman who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity.  He left a farewell note for the jailer's daughter, who had become his friend, and signed it:

"From Your Valentine". 

But it appears that the actual origins of Valentine's Day are as much of a mystery as love itself.  Some old cynics amongst us will perhaps moan that St Valentine's Day has simply become a cash-cow for Hallmark and horticulturists.  One man certainly wandered way off of the romantic track this Valentine's Day by sending his newly divorced ex-wife a cow’s heart presented in a clear plastic box (see pressbox).  What an 'offal' gift!  So I was rather delighted to discover a report that mentioned hundreds of years ago in England, children dressed up as adults on Valentine's Day, singing from home to home.  One of the verses goes as follows:

Good morning to you, valentine;
Curl your locks as I do mine
Two before and three behind.

Good morning to you, valentine.

And it is that second verse "Curl your locks as I do mine" that inspired my February theme. The theme I have chosen this month is about celebrating individuality.  Interestingly, back in 2005 a team of scientists from L'Oreal in Clichy, Paris were given the challenge to find what makes hair curly.  They grew hair in the laboratory to get to the 'root' (excuse the pun) of what makes hair curly.  The scientists subsequently found that a curly, or 'hook shaped' follicle (the little bulb about 4mm deep in the scalp) is the reason why hair grows curly.  I liken it to that curling ribbon that you romantic souls wrapped around the stems of your Valentine roses.  Now those of you who have already met me since taking up this post cannot deny that I have a full head of unruly curls - and before you reach for the home perming kit, I am not suggesting for a minute request that you 'curl your locks as I do mine'.  My hooked follicles are not something I can do much about (as my parents' follicles were certainly on the 'wavy' side); but like eye shape and skin colour, height and shoe size there is very little I can do to change my genetic blueprint. 

So before I get inundated with hair straighteners let me get to the point....

I was honoured this month to attend a bullying workshop at Uplands Primary hosted by Kidscape.  They carried out a series of workshops during the school day and then parents were invited to attend an evening workshop and discussion.  A theme raised during these sessions was identifying how each of us has an entirely unique set of qualities.  This was carried out with a simple "hands up" exercise.  Kidscape then worked with the parents, staff and children to show how these differences should be celebrated and never the cause of bullying.  The website advises: "Reward and encourage children for individuality".  Many thanks must go to Jude Ramshaw, and her team of staff and parent organisers at Uplands for making this such an enjoyable and informative day.  Details of the Kidscape workshops can be seen by clicking the link above.  Also - if you have not already received details regarding school resources available from the NSPCC's Full Stop Campaign then please feel free to download the pack below:

Help for children and teenagers - Childline 0800 1111    NSPCC Services and resources for schools  .PDF
 

Keeping to this theme of individuality - later this month I attended a networking event in Fareham exploring the theme of ethnic and minority groups and community inclusion.   The attendees came from many different backgrounds and professions and some interesting points were raised.  I shall not go into full details here until I am in receipt of the final report to distribute amongst my schools; but a couple of interesting reflective issues, relevant to the school setting came from our discussion.   The first came in the wake of 9/11 where a climate of fear and misunderstanding meant that some parents of school-age children were unwilling for their children to associate with their Muslim friends after school.  This obviously has implications for extended schools.  Out of interest, a former Portsmouth shop keeper explained how bricks were thrown through his windows and racism incidents increased dramatically in the local community.  More recently, a caretaker at a school in Fareham (which remained unnamed) interrupted a group of girls' Muslim prayer  at the tail end of the school day and expelled them from the building because he wanted to lock up.  Now these may be the extreme end of the spectrum of ignorance and intolerance but the point was clear - how many of us have a true understanding of cultural and spiritual needs?  Are well failing to celebrate those differences? 

I am aware that schools and colleges in the UK are fully committed to Equal Opportunities.  That goes without dispute.  Schools are required to have a strong anti-racist strategy and the need to challenge racism is well understood by pupils and staff.  But I question whether challenging sexism, ageism, disability and homophobia is not always given an equal degree of importance?  For example a teacher calling a pupil "A stupid boy" (this does still happen) or a child calling another "A poof" or "A spaz" because they are unhappy to participate in a rough game.  How many times have we turned a blind eye?   The most reported discriminatory hate crime in Fareham for instance is against homosexuals, so perhaps that "poof" tease in the primary playground is less innocent when put into this wider community context.

Most of these incidents seem to stem simply from a lack of understanding of these very unique qualities we are attempting to cherish and celebrate in our community.  

If you are interested in running a quick and fun experiment on Gardner's theory of multiple intelligences to explore these differences in learning styles, I would recommend the following website: http://www.bgfl.org/bgfl/custom/resources_ftp/client_ftp/ks3/ict/multiple_int/index.htm.  More learning styles can be found at support4learning

Furthermore, as a celebration of differences that exist between individuals, the Portchester Partnership Board will be launching a competition in the near future for children and young people to explore an area of the Ditchley Report.  The title will be based upon "The Space to Enjoy Childhood" and I shall provide further information to practitioners regarding this project when it has been finalised.  Keep your eyes open for full details appearing in the spring edition of The Portchester People.  In the meantime, I have supplied a teaching resource poster simply entitled Cherishing Childhood that hopefully may spark some creative juices in preparation.

Cherishing Childhood - Blooms Taxonomy  .PDF

Active Living

As a creative theme now appears to be overtaking this month's blog, I was also delighted to be invited to work alongside The Portchester Civic Society and Portchester Community School on a living theatre project.  The Society have kindly sent me a copy of "Portchester in Living Memory" and I am busy reading the memories and recollections that have been collated from many generations of Portchester residents.  Thank you for the warm welcome I have received from the Society and I look forward to working with you on this exciting project.

Which leads me beautifully to the National Year of Reading.  This is due to commence April 2008 but schools can sign up for it now and get the logos and newsletters to plan events for the year ahead.

Get signed up at: http://www.yearofreading.org.uk.

And finally...

For all those bikers, moped and scooter owners I have details of another exciting community project.  Fareham East Extended Services is working with the Fareham Safety Partnership to launch a TAG (Twist And Go for all those non-moped people) club for 16-19 year olds.  The club will hopefully outreach to all young people across the Borough who own, or who are thinking of owning a moped or scooter.  Safety is of paramount importance balancing on those two vulnerable wheels, therefore accident prevention, vehicle maintenance and raising awareness of the responsibilities of road users will be a theme running through the club.   I would be delighted to hear from anyone who might like to become involved. However if you fancy just popping along on the night, the launch date details are as follows:

Moped : Scooter, stock photo 24 April 2008

18.30 - 21.00

 X-Perience Young People's Centre, Fareham

Flyers and display poster for the event will be distributed nearer the date.